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New to Feminization
By: Marcus Thorton Date: September 23, 2024, 3:56 pm
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Hi! I’m at the very, very beginning stages meaning I have
accepted to myself I want to be feminized. At an early age I
would put on my mom’s stockings when no one was home. As I got
older I buried those feelings and now at almost 50 the sub needs
to come out. I found myself in my wife’s panty and lingerie
drawer putting on some items as well as some dresses a few years
ago. I’ve noticed my wife coming behind me whether I’m standing
against the table or if i’m bending over to pick up something
and portray the dominating position which I think she wants. All
these later in life pieces coming to hoping my wife will be up
for feminizing me as she wishes. Any advice or even things to
start with on my own would be much welcome.
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Re: New to Feminization
By: huberthowhow Date: September 23, 2024, 4:08 pm
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I think you need to come clean with your wife and let her know
that you are interesting in cross dressing. If nothing else, it
might spice up your relationship.
-H.H.
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Re: New to Feminization
By: afp Date: September 23, 2024, 4:26 pm
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Hello and welcome to the forum, nice to meet you. Yes you need
to come out to your wife who may also suspect something, so
should be delighted with your honesty.
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Re: New to Feminization
By: SissyPriscilla Date: September 23, 2024, 5:04 pm
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Welcome,you will find plenty of help and support here.
I agree with the others, you must broach the subject with your
wife. Maybe find a video or film to share where the female is
dominant, and ask her opinion about the scenario.
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Re: New to Feminization
By: meg Date: September 24, 2024, 1:45 am
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As others have said, you really need to bring her into the
know. You will find there are many ways to bring crossdressing
into a conversation. The same goes for bringing female
domination into a conversation. As Sissy Priscilla said, maybe
while watching a movie. Hugs, Meg
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Re: New to Feminization
By: Petula Petal Date: September 24, 2024, 3:04 am
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Hi and welcome along to this particular corner of the digital
world. Knowing nothing about your wife and her likes/dislikes
etc makes it challenging to offer sound advice but it does
appear that you have been together for quite some years so just
turning up one day and announcing your desires and confessing
crossdressing proclivities might be fraught with danger. I’d
recommend you find the right moment, maybe during a discussion
or watching a documentary or program to ask if she would
secretly like to be treated more like a princess/queen/lady of
the house. Did she ever dream of having her own servant /
butler/maid. Is it a fantasy to spend the day being pampered and
waited on hand and foot or use lazing around and ringing the
bell for service like the lady of the house might have done 100
years ago. They are all “get in “ types of inquiries which allow
you to gauge the feeling and responses before you go jumping
into something that might be well outside of her boundaries at
this stage. On the other hand, if you received a favourable
response you can hold a very light hearted conversation saying
“I can just see you turning into the lady of the house and
barking out orders to poor old me, having me run around after
you and doing all the jobs. Next thing I know you’ll be
requiring me to wear a full uniform to show I am in service -
but would you have me as a butler or as a housemaid or personal
maid? - then the rabbit hole opens up further to explore the
possibilities……but just one thing……take it slowly and at her
pace; for it to work at all it has to be on her terms. That is
your compromise. You might just love the idea of getting dolled
up in a really feminine uniform with frills and flounces, heels
and make up etc etc but she has to want it or agree to it or it
will never work and I know there are plenty who find it
difficult to believe that any woman wouldn’t want to be in a
situation like this but sadly, that is not always the case…never
quite that easy!
Good luck and I’m sure many of us will welcome a progress report
or two!
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Re: New to Feminization
By: Marcus Thorton Date: September 24, 2024, 8:19 am
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Thanks to all who replied. It’s more than cross dressing.
Whether she knows it or not she’s definitely the lady of the
house. She handles all finances, and has recently started
showing more of a dominate side whether it’s like I mentioned in
the first post of coming behind me and acting in thrusting
motion or the every day to day things. Whatever it is I’ve
slowly accepted she’s the boss and want to serve her like the
sub I feel I am to be. I will get the courage to bring it up
slowly. Maybe a combination of the bedroom and panties and
outside bringing her things and doing more of the cleaning to
let her relax.
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Re: New to Feminization
By: SissysWife Date: September 24, 2024, 2:18 pm
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I love everything and every effort you are making!!
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Re: New to Feminization
By: SissyPriscilla Date: September 24, 2024, 3:56 pm
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New2Heels, I am put in mind of that old chestnut “ We share
decision making, my wife decides what we spend, where we live,
what I wear, and controls the house. I make the other decisions,
like who do we go to war with” There is benefit in having the
stronger mind and personality dealing with matters for us lesser
men. Good luck.
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Re: New to Feminization
By: Marcus Thorton Date: September 24, 2024, 7:20 pm
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A little update. My wife and I had a sit down where I brought up
the topic at hand. We really went through our own therapy
session almost. She first asked if I was gay. I told her no and
that I do not find men attractive at all. Then we were talking
about how I was attracted to women who were in certain heels, or
how they looked in a certain skirt or how her hair was done. She
stopped me and said maybe this whole time I wasn’t so much
attracted to them, I wanted to be like them. Which hit a spot
that made sense. Which she then confessed she thought she was
Bisexual because she found women attractive but wasn’t sure she
wanted to be with a woman and how the thought of me in what she
found attractive on women was very intriguing. So we are slowly
going to move forward. Tonight is the start. She is shaving off
my facial and body hair.
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