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Ms Scarlet
By: Sissy Tinkerbelle Date: September 29, 2024, 5:15 am
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I should have posted this ages ago. If you are not already
subscribed to Ms Scarlet’s blog you are missing out. It is one
of the very best there is, authentic, real and devoid of stupid
fantasty. Instead it is about real life female led
relationships. Ms Scarlet writes beautifully and her books are a
joy to read. I could go on all day, but to summarise I have
learned a lot from reading this blog and my wife has also
conversed by email with her.
The latest post is about Suzette, a very early example of the
new age male who became a full time live in maid for his
mistress. Extensively documented and photographed over his many
years of service. I’ve attached a picture from Ms Scarlet’s site
to let you see what proper service looks like - 24:7: 365. Now
we aren’t as extreme as that in our house but i’m very familiar
with similar daily uniforms and mountains of housework, and have
learned to love it. It’s domination my wife’s way or no way -
for us that means gentle but always, vanilla time is still maid
time.
HTML https://msscarletuk.wordpress.com/
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Re: Ms Scarlet
By: Haraldje Date: September 29, 2024, 5:39 am
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Indeed, Ms Scarlett's blog is such a valuable resource for any
women seriously considering FLR.
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Re: Ms Scarlet
By: SissyPriscilla Date: September 29, 2024, 1:56 pm
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OMG and WOW, Tink honey,, thanks so much for the address of Ms.
Scarlet’s blog, which I had never found before. I have only just
scanned its headings so far and had a brief look at Suzette
Faggot’s story, but there is so much wonderful content to keep
me engrossed for weeks. Thanks, honey.
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Re: Ms Scarlet
By: guest1477 Date: September 30, 2024, 1:35 am
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[quote author=Sissy Tinkerbelle
link=topic=1958.msg18916#msg18916 date=1727604956]
I should have posted this ages ago. If you are not already
subscribed to Ms Scarlet’s blog you are missing out. It is one
of the very best there is, authentic, real and devoid of stupid
fantasty. Instead it is about real life female led
relationships. Ms Scarlet writes beautifully and her books are a
joy to read. I could go on all day, but to summarise I have
learned a lot from reading this blog and my wife has also
conversed by email with her.
The latest post is about Suzette, a very early example of the
new age male who became a full time live in maid for his
mistress. Extensively documented and photographed over his many
years of service. I’ve attached a picture from Ms Scarlet’s site
to let you see what proper service looks like - 24:7: 365. Now
we aren’t as extreme as that in our house but i’m very familiar
with similar daily uniforms and mountains of housework, and have
learned to love it. It’s domination my wife’s way or no way -
for us that means gentle but always, vanilla time is still maid
time.
HTML https://msscarletuk.wordpress.com/
[/quote]
I like to watch her blue face.
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Re: Ms Scarlet
By: Sissy Tinkerbelle Date: September 30, 2024, 3:05 am
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Ms Scarlet and a number of her wonderful mistress contributors
beautifully describe the FLR lifestyle. Many wouldn’t understand
the appeal of a 24/7 service life such that Suzette had, but I
know the sissies and maids here would jump at the chance!
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Re: Ms Scarlet
By: SissyPriscilla Date: September 30, 2024, 8:51 am
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Suzette looks such a pretty sissy, withsuch excellent makeup.
Sadly, in every pic she looks so miserable; I can’t believe that
in truth she is deep down enjoying her servitude and her
enforced femininity.
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Re: Ms Scarlet
By: Sissy Tinkerbelle Date: September 30, 2024, 9:17 am
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[quote author=SissyPriscilla link=topic=1958.msg18957#msg18957
date=1727704281]
Suzette looks such a pretty sissy, withsuch excellent makeup.
Sadly, in every pic she looks so miserable; I can’t believe that
in truth she is deep down enjoying her servitude and her
enforced femininity.
[/quote]
Hi Priscilla
She does seem dejected and full of despair. However, she could
leave any time I’m guessing. It is a real paradox of the
submissive soul (Ms Scarlet uses the more correct term Uxo not
submissive) that we need to endure otherwise we cannot find
satisfaction. For example, my wife has been on several girls
holidays. I have never been on a lads break. During her
holidays, I have remained home with a very long list of
household duties to complete. I send before and after pictures
of cleaned cupboards, baking, ironing etc etc. When I look at
her pictures of cocktails and fun, the endurance is very
apparent. I want to be outside doing leisure stuff, but I’m
inside making the place spotless for her return. It’s a real
endurance, but my desire to treat her like a queen supersedes
all of that. I expect Suzette also feels that, it’s very hard
but she needs it. It’s a really weird thing being a devoted
maid, impossible to explain to anyone without the sissy genes
that power it.
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Re: Ms Scarlet
By: Valerie Date: September 30, 2024, 11:14 am
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Oopsie! His slip is showing!
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Re: Ms Scarlet
By: SissyPriscilla Date: October 1, 2024, 6:43 am
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Hi Tinks, sorry I haven’t yet had time to read much of Ms
Scarlet’s wonderful blog, so I was really just commenting on
Suzette’s lack of smile. Perhaps her Mistress preferred her to
look unhappy, even though She knew that Suzette was completely
accepting her position.
I am interested to hear of Ms Scarlet’s coining the word Uxo;
good to have a short word describing so much.
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Re: Ms Scarlet
By: Haraldje Date: October 1, 2024, 8:40 am
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[quote author=SissyPriscilla link=topic=1958.msg18976#msg18976
date=1727783030]
I am interested to hear of Ms Scarlet’s coining the word Uxo;
good to have a short word describing so much.
[/quote]
The term uxo was also something that made me stop and think when
reading Ms Scarlett's blog. I am not sure if I have fully
grasped the meaning but as far as I have come to understand it
is a term that has been coined to describe a male who is REALLY
SUBMISSIVE in the true sense of being submissive, instead of
being submissive in the way males have understood it when
talking about submissive to women.
Males have understood being submissive to women as a kind of
play that is being played by the rules the male "submissive" has
made, with stopwords and the chance of always saying no. That is
the famous topping from the bottom that has put off women for so
long. So when hearing or reading the term submissive women think
always of this male fantasy game and loose all interest.
In contrast an uxo is a male who is really submissive, which
means he has no rights, he has nothing to say, the boundaries
are set by the dominant female and by no one else and he has to
show total obedience, whether he likes it or not.
An uxo is in effect a slave. So why not call him a slave? There
are, as far as I have understood, two differences. The first is
that the uxo has made a voluntary decision to become a slave. He
is not hunted down and forced at gunpoint into slavery but he is
asked "Do you want domination my way or no domination at all?"
and when he said "your way" he became an uxo. The second
difference is that an uxo can leave if the wants, in contrast to
a real slave.
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