Subj : Recent events 1.
To   : LEE LOFASO
From : BOB KLAHN
Date : Wed Jul 24 2013 11:11:44

 LL> Hello Bob,

 BK>> Went to a funeral today, for a friend of my wife. She was a
 BK>> music teacher and performer. As such, so were many of her
 BK>> friends, including my wife, and the woman sitting to my right at
 BK>> the funeral dinner. Seems musicians tend to know each other.

 LL> Working musicians often do know each other.  Even
 LL> non-working musicians (no musician is ever truly retired).
 LL> That does not mean that all musicians are friends with each
 LL> other, although many are.

 I have noticed that. And when musicians die they have good music
 to see them off.

BK>>While we were sitting at the table waiting for the rest of the
BK>>mourners to arrive, a couple of black women walked up to us and
 ...
 LL> None of those attending were "mourners".  Here is
 LL> Louisiana, those attending funerals are known as
 LL> "celebrants".  Because that is what we do.  We "celebrate"
 LL> the passing of an individual as he/she leaves one world and
 LL> enters another.  This has nothing to with race, be it black
 LL> or whte or whatever other color there is in the universe.

 My wife has said, at her funeral there is to be laughter and
 dancing. And no bad music.

 She even suggested the 'mourners/celebrants' be given red clown
 noses as they enter.

 LL> We have a tradition in Louisiana with brass bands.  A brass
 LL> band will play songs of mourning as an individual is being
 LL> brought to his/her place of rest, and songs of joy after
 LL> he/she has been laid to rest.

 My wife wants that sort of thing, but, since she's a violinist,
 she wants lots of strings.

 LL> In that sense, death is part of life.  Or a part of life.
 LL> No life can be worth living until the experience of death
 LL> has come.  Only then will there be life everlasting.  And
 LL> that is something that is worth celebrating.

 And we have discussed that also. The only real reason we are
 here it to continue a line that goes back to the first humans on
 earth, and extends further than we can see. If we can't
 contribute to that we serve no purpose on Earth.

BK>>She looked at the white woman sitting to my right, and said, "Oh
BK>>yes, I know her."

BK>>I pointed to my left and said, no, this is my wife.

BK>>Funny what we assume.

 LL> Don't you know?  The woman is colorblind.  As most women
 LL> are. Much more so than men, anyway.  Really.  I kid you
 LL> not.  It is a scientifically-proven fact.  More women than
 LL> men are colorblind. You of all people should know that.

 There was a movie, "If you could see what I hear", about a blind
 man early in his life. Sharie Bellafonte Harper played his love
 interest. One morning they woke up in bed together, and she
 asked, "Is it different to make love to a black woman?"

 He answered, "You're black? Oh my God, I'm colorblind too!"



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