Subj : Re: Relationships And Mor To : Daryl Stout From : George Pope Date : Fri Oct 22 2021 12:24:14 > There are other things in life besides (insert your hobby here). Yeah, > some would consider that blasphemous and heresy. > I tell folks that [insert hobby here] should NEVER take priority over > such things as church, family, health, job, or especially "honey-do's". > In the case of amateur radio, that new radio you have your eye on for > Christmas or your birthday, is going back to "the candy store". Yup. A man needs to take care of his responsibilities first (including family) then he can be free to enjoy his hobby/obsession. I say the same for thosd who like to drink: fulfill your obligations first, & use your own earned money to by that liquor, then you certainly deserve to enjoy that cold one out in the yard you paid for & continue to maintain. No good wife would say otherwise. My wifew will pour me a glass of our home-made fruit wine & give it to me to enjoy as I watch a bit of TV at the end of the week. > Or, it's like the meme (I think I've noted this before, but it bears > repeating), where the wife is looking out the bedroom window, glaring at > her husband in the backyard. He's out there in his nightclothes, with a > pillow, standing in front of a desk, with a bunch of office equipment > on it (computer, printer, adding machine, etc.). Behind the desk is the > doghouse...and in a swivel chair, is a dog, wearing spectacles. > The dog asks "Good evening, sir!! Will be our guest for one night > only, or will this be your usual extended stay??" Yup, seem that one (not from yuo, just in general) My wife & I agreed, before marriage that neither gets to kick the other outto the couch or doghouse -- if one cannot stand to cooperate to a friendly resolution, & cannot abide sleeping next to the other, THEY can feel free to sleep on the couch. (seems fair to me); married 14 years, thanks to God. You've heard of the couple maeried for 98 years, who went for a divorce? The judge was shocked & asked why now. The old gent answered, "We had to wait for all the kids to die first." Your friend, <+]:{)} Cyberpope, Bishop of ROM --- SBBSecho 3.14-Linux * Origin: The Rusty MailBox - Penticton, BC Canada (1:153/757.2) .