Subj : Re: Love and marriage
To   : Daryl Stout
From : George Pope
Date : Sun Feb 27 2022 14:26:56

> George,
>> I'm still looking for my opportunityt to walk up to a midrif-baring
>> sweet lil  sdome thing & ask if that ring in her navel is for hanging
>> an air freshener, &  does she go with pine or lemon?
> Never mind Wizard. <G>

Huh?

>> Nah, I don't make little girls cry.
> So much for the song "Big Girls Don't Cry".

I don't make big girls cry either.

> LOL. I saw a meme where on this model railroad layout (or it was a
> photoshopped picture) of these 2 women at trackside (you saw them
> from the back, and they lifted their shirts, and flashed their bosoms
> at the engineer (who got an eyefull)).

There was a scene similar in Big Bang Theory -- the guys were engrossed in a 3D type MMRPG, gnoring all ariond them.  The girls entered in &spoke of having a  big party/orgy with kissing & hugging with them & a few of their sluttier  friends -- nothing.

After the game was over, Leonard & Howard were comparing notes & askng if they  heard some thing like that. . .  "must be missing the girls" they concluded.

Your meme needs a caption like "Most train collisions are the result of  operator distraction." Make ity single panel with cows & you got an homage to  Gary Larson!

>> So they likely watched me go & maybe impressed that not all men are
>> slavering  perv pigs.
> These young ladies at church are sweet, pretty, courteous (and have
> nice pelvic structures), but I'm old enough to be their grandfather.
> They have talked to me some days when I went to the restaurant where
> they worked to eat, as I was depressed, and gave me "some counseling"
> (basically, a shoulder to cry on). Last week, I caught all 3 of them
> together, and thanked them profusely for their kindness.
> Folks do like to be appreciated. :)

I'm with you; & some times it really is nmice to have a friendly chjat with  cute young things when all in the convo know i t's just a short side visit on  theroad ofreality.  Both sides feel good by a bhit of honest  flattery/compliments, & no harm done.

The young irls might get some avuncular advbice thart'll help them in the long  run, & gramps gets a boost to his immune system, & an advance in longevity(true story!); in extremecvases, it could save one from a planned suicide.

We all want human contact & interaction -- it's built in -- but it's up to us  to practice enough self control (guided by God's laws) to achieve this need in  healthy socially acceptable for your community ways.

I've advised young peo[[ple of the absolute best way to go, but when they  clearly stated they could bnot or would not go by that, then I give them advice most chiurch elders would frown upon, to reduce risks & to at least have them  know exactly where they stand WRT God's stated laws, & the natural laws of His  Creation.

Even as a non-believer, I acted out of love when talknig to peioplel, including the customer who said he was on his wy to commit suicide; I wished him a  pleasant day as he left to go to the bridge.

Few hourts later he showed up to scream at me that he had climbed up high  enough to die if he jumped, but was so mad at me he had to come down & walk  back to tell me what a >expletive omitted< I was for just wishing him a nice  day as he was off to kill himself.  I shrugged, we chatted & became friends for a few months, until I moved out of town after my brain injury.

I act/speak/counsel in love, specific to a given context & person/people, not  from any sectarian playbook.

Agape is a broad thing & always will be if truly practiced.


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