Subj : Happy Lunar New Year! To : ROB MCCART From : Mike Powell Date : Sun Mar 22 2026 10:17:11 > MP>I have met a few women over the years... luckily ones I never dated... that > >came right out and said that they like to argue and don't like it when men > >won't argue with them. Their reasoning, IIRC, is that sometimes they > >needed to be argued with for some validation purpose... my memory is hazy > >on that bit now. > This suggests that I'm not the only person who had that problem.. > Is this a 'Male' thing? B) In this instance, I would say no it is not. It is a problem for others, IMHO. ;) > MP>In some cases, no doubt, it had to do with them being upset with > >someone else... boss, co-worker, etc... that they didn't feel that > >they could argue with. > I've met women who are frustrated at work and take it out on their > husbands when they get home for that reason I guess. > My first long term live-in girfriend (4.5 years) didn't have that > problem.. She said exactly what she thought at work.. Of course > she rarely kept a job for more than a few months.. B) Well, there is that. ;) Mike * SLMR 2.1a * Life's essentials: H O C N Ca P Cl K S Na Mg --- SBBSecho 3.28-Linux * Origin: Capitol City Online (618:250/10) .