date: Tue 24 Jun 2025 11:46:52 PM PDT
subj: barbara conner san francisco 
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My sister doesn't know who she is anymore. I got a call today
from the doctor at the behavioral health. My sister thinks she
is barbara conner, and she is currently is an earthquake shelter
in san fransico where she lives and works in a nursery. To her
it is August 2026. She is 34 years old born in 1979. She had a
surgery on her angle (or leg can't remember what the doctor said
she told them), several years ago. 


My sister has been laying in the fetal position for a couple
days holding her head. If her family is mentioned she is
triggered into pacing around the room searching in the corners
for something. 

The doctors are going to give her an antipsychotic medication,
but if she refuses, and they think she will because she isn't
cooperating they will get a court order to treat her. I'm not
listed as a person who can make medical decisions for her or
even know about how she is doing. The doctors called me and her
boyfriend today to find out some level of reality about her,
because everything my sister told them has been a fiction. 

Her boyfriend told them she used to be a normal person with a
normal life. A person who went to work daily, paid her bills,
has never been arrested, never committed a crime, never hurt
anyone. She was a lovely beautiful fun lady. Then the day of her
surgery she became a different person; paranoid, having
delusions, and hallucinations. I called the doctors office
multiple times to get her help, and they ignored her even though
I told them she is hallucinating, no help. She went back to the
hospital 4 times before she attempted to take her own life, and
each time she went there was someone telling the hospital staff
she is having hallucinations, and each time they said she is
fine. Its so hard to believe the fucking fuck heads would say
something like she is fine. If everyone who is having
hallucinations is fine were all fucked. 

I don't understand how the hospital staff let a person go home
knowing she is hallucinating and not even knowing what fucking
year it is!l They let her go for so when they were told she is
having issues, and she is having head pain. She wasn't well
after the surgery.

What to do now? File a law suite? How does a person even find
out what happened during a surgery? How would a person even know
if something went wrong during the surgery from the anesthesia to
the procedure itself? HIPA rules seem designed to allow those
working on people to not let others find out without super
cumbersome and bureaucratic red tape that is so difficult to
navigate for those not in the business, family and friends get
to deal with the fallout of hospital fuck ups.