The Harder I Fight The More I Love You by Neko Case Rating = **** It turns out she writes a book just as well as she writes a song. This memoir is 80% focused on her life before any of us knew who she was. Life as a Grammy-nominated singer/songwriter is almost treated as an epilogue. That's okay though, because her life growing up was grim. She uses the word feral. She was raised, if you can use that word, by parents who got married (for a few years) after Neko was conceived in the back seat of a car by two high schoolers. They never wanted to be parents, and the job never grew on them. It's a grim, sometimes heartbreaking, but always entertaining story of growing up solo, more or less, and not really knowing yourself until well past the date that is expected of us in the US.