It's true that phantasm is better than reality. But reality is so much better than phantasm Don't fear the phantasm it's just a though located in time and space outside of reality. Phantasm doesn't have a before or after Only a tiny sliver of time without a cause without an effect. Enjoy phantasm for what it is, this ephemeral creation, this blip or creativity. Don't cultivate phantasm, thinking it is reality, accepting it as part of who you are. Don't fear the phantasm, as you would infuse life into it. Let it flow in and flow out, thanking it for the bit of entertainment it offers. Don't take it personally observe reality. There is a purpose in all of it. A puzzle you only can untangle.