True enough, but intelligence (which can be possessed by adults as well as kids) and a cautious listening ear should prevent any troubles. For example, boiled down to its most "idealistic" set of motives, the Klu Klux Klan isn't doing anything too terribly awful - preservation of what they hold dear. In practice, in use, etc., the things *done* in the name of Ideals can be dangerous, painful, hurtful, destructive. Or, how about the "We're behind America 100% - Right or Wrong" crowd, popular in the 1950's, and during any wartime efforts? *In one sense, it's a great kind of solidarity - a group working together towards supporting something they believe in, mistakes or not. [rather like a spouse standing firm with their beloved against the face of opposition, even when they *know* that their spouse is mistaken] Put into practice, while it is often helpful, and when America was Wrong, it wasn't always all that bad. *But there have been times where it would be been better for the America-Right or Wrong crowd, who *knew* that America was wrong, to join forces with the groups that were *fighting* the wrong already. There's room for all, as long as there is free association. And even when there isn't, you always have your thoughts and your spirit, which *nobody* can control. And that's where freedom ultimately reigns. Usenet group: soc.religion.unitarian-univ Topic: Polyrelationships [original : https://groups.google.com/d/msg/soc.religion.unitarian-univ/W31LuscsFBA/RwMlnERSv_kJ ]