^You stand in the middle, looking outwards and inwards at the same time. When the two are the same - (what you think you see, you actually see) - everything is in flow and is smooth and there is no sense of time passing. But when there is an XOR - when there is a different in the images between what you think you are supposed to be seeing and what you are actually seeing through your senses, the overlay of the two images has a complicated thing that just doesn't make sense. That tiny part of your brain where all consciousness passes through, from inside and outside simultaneously - has to calculate Truth from it and what to ignore. If the different is too great - too big for that small part of the brain to chew on and digest, it rejects it until it can find a preexisting analogy in the brain to attach it to. That's why it sometimes takes years to figure out what happened to us as kids, or why - or if - we were rejected by someone in our lives, or whatever extremely "doesn't fit" thing happens. Even babies need pacifiers to be consoled. The world is tough right from the start. But if you've made it this far, your chances of carrying on, are pretty good.^