Ostracizing those who exhibit bully type behavior at a young
   ...age is, unfortunately, becoming more and more common: It's
   easy to like ppl who are nice and quiet and shy and hard to like
   people who are loud and mean, in your face and demanding. But
   those are the coping skills they've learned; to fix the future
   of humanity takes understanding of all types of personalities
   complete with all of their learned strategies for coping with
   life's difficulties...."