Russ Stillman ah yes - yes, I see what you're saying. and I do like a lot of what fb has introduced at least to my iphone in extra features. personally, I take it as I took Google in 2002 when they released *all* of my old Usenet posts for general searching on Google. I tracked down about 40 posts I didn't want my mother or other people to EVER see, and got them deleted by Google immediately. After that, I gave up privacy and embraced it, just considering my online persona as a manufactured thing that HAPPENS to somewhat resemble me. "