1) as soon as you realize your humanity, you realize, "I ain't
   perfect" and you start getting more and more comfortable with
   mistakes, flaws, and unintentional comedy (ppl laughing at
   something you did/said) 2) hate and love isn't so different.
   When somebody falls short of perfect (doesn't do what you WANT
   them to do when you EXPECT them to do it) or they remind you too
   much of yourself, it becomes hate. Plus hate is usually more fun
   (evil-type fun) than love. "