It's a great quote -- and so true - it's important to remember to give a compliment 'cause you might need one yourself tomorrow (and if you don't give 'em, you might not get 'em when you need them!). I didn't mean anything personal by the "walk away confused" bit --- I was picturing a show I saw years ago, showing soldiers hitting hippies with the butts of their rifles, and the hippies giving them flowers, confusing the heck out of the soldiers. ie - if someone is "hating on you" as kids today say, give them a compilment and they won't know what to say, because they're expecting you to fight back, not be nice to them :-) "