^The best answer to anything you're worried about is to: a) Quit complaining about it b) Break it down into fixable/unfixable parts c) Do what you can to fix the thing you're worried about d) the parts you can't fix, prepare for, then e) accept it and move forward. Tackle each worry in this fashion and you'll gain peace of mind. Shut up, Break it down, Fix, Prepare, Accept, Repeat.^