People follow patterns. That's what people do. You are a person.
   You follow patterns. I am a person. I follow patterns. What is
   the pattern? Everybody follows their own patterns. Sometimes, it
   can be upsetting when somebody else's pattern does not match
   with your pattern. Your pattern might not make sense to me. This
   may cause an emotional reaction in me. I may get angry. I may
   get upset. I may try to make your pattern match my pattern. I
   may get sad. I might not care. Your pattern might make me happy.
   If you change your pattern, that might make me sad. Why would
   that make me sad? I will be sad because I included your pattern
   in my pattern of how your pattern is supposed to go. The pattern
   that made me happy was my pattern of you. But my pattern of you
   was wrong. Being wrong does not fit in many peoples patterns.