I understand. I happen to enjoy the chaos that ensues when people talk past each other * and then I get to be the marvelous "voice of reason" that ties everybody together and both sides go "oh, Kenneth, you are so wise". I do it simply for the ego strokes. But also, I enjoy the process of trying to comprehend different people speaking in multiple contexts simultaneously. And sometimes I make pointless debates with worthy adversaries to cause that to happen * which makes me a bit of a prick at times. I can claim it - even believe it myself * that I'm doing it for a noble purpose (The betterment of myself * the betterment of others * the betterment of all) * but I suspect it's just for the entertainment value * and I enjoy the company.