It's good to save compliments sometimes.* What is a "Letter of Recommendation" but nice compliments given by someone whose word "means something"?** I think everybody's word means something, so when I get exceptional compliments, I save them for rainy days.* It's not that our "sense of self worth" is defined by other people... but in a way... it kind of is as well. It's a weird mixture. Anyhow, this is one I got a long time ago - a litetime ago it seems, but it's also the same lifetime. * It's a good example of a nice letter of recommendation, if you ever need to write one.* While you may not think so when you get them, the Adjectives other people use to describe you do sink in at some level and become how you see yourself at times. To Whom It May Concern, Kenneth Udut has been working for me for the last eight months, on a temporary assignment.* I would recommend Ken highly to any company looking for a Professional, Competent, Cooperative employee. He is very organized and always willing to take on additional responsibility. If there was the opportunity to keep Ken as a permanent employee we would take advantage of his skills.* Head count freeze prevents this from happening. Sincerely, [signed] Penny Malcolm I let people take advantage of my skills sometimes.* Lately I've been taking advantage of my skills on myself.* It's been quite interesting from a self-growth/development perspective.