I could have written every word you said; _so true_ all of it.* And yes, I don't think we're talking to ourselves - and that's the wonder of it all to me.* There's a difference between looking at the glass in front of a mirror and talking, and looking at the glass in front of a computer monitor or phone and talking; an alien species may not see much difference but *we* know the difference... and that is that there _really *is*_ somebody else "out there". Not alone. And, like you, were a post apocolyptic world happen in my lifetime, I would search for survivors. And... I suppose... in a way, that is what I've been doing my whole life.* Searching for survivors.* I believe that you are a survivor, as am I.* There's rarely a moment that I'm not absolutely amazed at the ability to connect... all this time and it's never gotten old, I've rarely taken it for granted... and it's even helped me appreciate a *little bit more* my relationships in 3D life... ...but in comparison.. not putting down the relationships I have in 'real life' of course... the people I know online *are* ... I don't know.. _more_.* More what?* I don't know.* Just... *more*. It's almost as *being limited* in expressiveness to words on a screen or other digital means of expression, forces us to focus and work harder at being understood and at understanding.* Plus we can an amazing amount of control.* I don't have to worry about raising an eyebrow for a moment and then having someone be mad at me because "that means you didn't believe me" and all sorts of body language shtuff. Some people complain about the Internet and its ways as limitations to communication but to me, it's a much more free form of expression.* Who want to see me sit here in a chair, looking straight ahead, typing really fast into a keyboard?* That's dull. But the words coming off of my fingertips?* They represent the stuff you CAN'T SEE - the invisible stuff that's happening inside of my brain and self; the words and concepts and ideas that nobody would have the patience to listen to in person, if I was speaking these words instead. I'll run these through a voice synthesizer speaking at normal speed.* I'm going to see how long it would take to say all of this.* I bet it's far longer than someone would usually have patience to listen. But reading is *fast* - very fast... you can skim.. you can jump around.* I guess writing is my #1 form of communication.* Plus you can take your time... no pressure... no rush.* My 100% Korean-only speaking friend can run my words through a translator and get the 'gist' of what I'm saying.* I can run his words through a translator and get the 'gist' of what he's saying. But in real life?* Would we talk?* Would we know each other?* if we passed on the street, would we sit down on a park bench and chat?* Well, if we knew each other, sure.* But randomly?* Not very likely. But here?* it's normal.* It's how things are.* And I'd be bold enough to say - it's how things *should be* in real life.* Free to express without fear of judgement; a dream realized by being 'here'. Where would I be if computers and the Internet did not exist?* If they never existed?* Honestly?* I have no idea. [responding to: PSJ who wrote: By making improbable relationship probable (with technology, or something), we can break that barrier which blocks us from learning more about those people who have been connected together through astonishing 10^930 possibilities (about -10^8% of earth's population and -10^483% of possible relationship "string"). I like that fact; in fact, by connecting ourselves to the "Guild of The Strangers" (also known as Internet and anonymous club), we can get a good connection together with someone we meet there; it could be the one you know, or it could be the one you don't know, or it could be nobody. Through some exchange of information, we can learn about the person, and be friends with them; This is how internet works. It's a virtual society composed of 0's and 1's. (And about Ham Radio, it's actually true; the longest distance for successful transmission was 355.06Km, about across the Pacific Ocean and China) I love to look back into my life, embarrass myself, laugh at myself, get frustrated, and so on -- Thinking about possibilities and results that never happened, or happened. Every minute, every second we are changing continuously; either better or worse. It's freaking awesome. And if we WERE INDEED talking to ourselves, that'd make me sad. But by reaching (or trying to reach) people I know, or I don't know but I want to be in the relationship of some sort, I can feel alive again. I am very social; and that makes me feel good about the humanity. What if, the world has crumbled down, and the post-apocalypse days has begun? The very first thing I would do is to search for survivors.]