"I have learned a lifetime of experience and heartfelt moment from things that aren't even real". I think that's why I love fandom - all fandom. Lifetimes of experiences are written into characters by mere mortals; creative writers who have whole Multiverses buzzing around in their brains. They may be fiction, but the experiences they share that you _relate to_ become YOUR experiences. YOU fought the battles. YOU caught the bad guys. YOU snuck around dark corners and had powers and abilities that the 3D Life you might not. They live inside you. They guide you. They teach you. They speak to you. You don't HAVE to do these things in your 3D self; you've already done them by UNDERSTANDING someone else who DID. It doesn't matter whether their experiences came from an anime or somebody's grandpa who went through a war; the moment you understand THEM and how they feel and how they think... their lives become yours. Part of you is them. Part of them is you. They live in YOU now. My fandom was/is Doctor Who. I've seen the classic series, the new series, never missed an episode. Since I was 8 years old watching it with my grandmother. Because of this, somewhere inside of me, I've lived thousands of years, had impossible experiences... and I can relate what I learned, heard and felt from fiction to ME and to everything around me. If you've experienced thousands of lifetimes from stories, I believe, in some way, you become thousands of lifetimes old. People in 'real life' that remind you of fictional people - you _understand them_ because - you've met them before, or some version of them in a story. I believe that sometimes fiction is more real than the planet we walk on and the people we see and talk to each day. I love science, but this is one of the areas that science completely misses: Stories. Imagination. We can contain the whole Universe in our brain, even if the physical Universe doesn't fit in there. All we have to do is understand it. Then... it fits. Somehow... it fits. I've run out of words on this and wish I could find a few perfect words that say it all. Wait... YOU did, already: "I have learned a lifetime of experience and heartfelt moment from things that aren't even real". -Maxx Davis I just wrote an essay based on your words. :D* thank you :) Original Context of quote: "The idea contained in that perfect set of words is so strong that it makes somebody really _think_ and go, "Wow.. that's me right there". Or, "omg that just changed my life!" A few words. A few powerful words" i agree with all of your quote, but the one that stuck out to me was this. actually the reason that i showed this to you is because of just that! I find my self to relate to L, even on a personal level being as L and i both have insomnia, its just kind of funny how we learn so much and we gain the respect of those who don't really exist... the thing about everything is that it was created with a creativity so intense that people can relate, the things that you watch, see, feel, just hoping its real when really its, not... I have learned a lifetime of experience and heartfelt moment from things that, aren't even real... and i can already say that that goes for all of us that feel, we all have some one ti relate to weather it be reality or fiction. The theme song as well holds true to this, "My dreams have turned to reality". -Maxx Davis