Good enough? Damn girl you're better than good enough. That's why you have trouble: It's not that you don't measure up to them. There's no comparing. You are who you are and the mold of who you think you're supposed to be when you're with someone doesn't suit you. Forget the mold. Does your personality change when you're with someone? The you *you are* is perfect and someone who recognizes that will come your way. If they can't see it, well.. they're not "it", are they? Sucks, yeah. Wasted time? Yeah. Hurts? Yeah. If you get tired of searching, you can stop and pick up whenever, or you can carry on the search. As long as there's men out there, there's somebody suitable for you. All the crap they tell you in school, "You should be married by x age, you should be with someone otherwise you're a [insert some derogatory term.. I don't know what words they use for women, I just know the ones they call guys].. It's middle school stuff. Single, with someone... doesn't matter. It's all your choice. Pick wrong? You pick wrong. Try again or don't. All the shoulds don't matter. It's your life and your choices.