Wow, that describes me eerily well - thank you smile emoticon I mean, I _do_ like to hear about "funny thing that happened today" and stuff like that too; I like hearing what's important to someone that they want to share with me, even if it fits in the category of small talk. I guess the part that makes me feel uncomfortable (maybe not hate) is having to guess what I'm supposed to say next in a conversation and not knowing what that is, I suppose if that's what it means by small talk then yes smile emoticon [I've been told I overthink things tongue emoticon ] Anyyway, this is my long-winded way of saying "Thank you grin emoticon