Knowing "how things appear" makes a difference.
   I talk to anybody who talks to me (online) but there's a gavel
   somewhere just waiting - a source of potential future energy
   that can be given impetus via traceable words and actions. It's
   just how it is - it doesn't stop me from talking to people. But
   I don't wanna fill that future gavel with potential energy to
   then fall down and go, "Bang". Nope. :P