Perhaps. Yet also, you win. Did I find you? Or did I click on a
   notification which led me to an html page which had an input box
   which I typed "found you" on, and then also clicked "Like" on a
   javascript 'button" so it changed to "unlike" and added a thumbs
   up icon and a number 1 next to it?

   In that sense, I didn't find you at all. So, you can have
   success and failure all at once, depending on how you view the
   facets of the diamond.