Gotta go with my theory then. Leaky triangles.
   Something happens when three things push and pull each other.
   Simultaneous unveiling and building combined with the one who is
   utilizing it, makes it a triangle.

   The three-way negotiating leads to growth in an unexpected
   direction. That's the leak in the triangle. Weird analogy I use
   but I can't find a flaw yet, but I'm biased tongue emoticon

   It's even in physics. See Efimov state. When you 'get' what the
   efimov state is... you get this "mind=blown" feeling.

   I think it's a physical property.