I love the way you think and I enjoy listening to your opinions about this stuff.* I think we're on the same page with these things. Yeah, the gratitude thing; it's one of the reasons why I don't mind reasonable religious people being reasonable, just as I don't mind non-religious people being reasonable;* if there's a human system that results in someone stepping outside of themselves so to speak, and seeing that the Universe DOESN'T begin and end with them... it's one less arrogant SOB in the world... and one more nice person. Not that I expect even nice ppl to always be nice... but, well, I like nice.* I like authentic.* I don't mind people being sharp with their honesty either; that has its place too.* But I think the world can use a little less, "I hate [x]!" and a little more, "This is what I think; you may think differently", the more the world will get along with each other just a little better. Of course I could be wrong.* Perhaps total elimination of a perceived enemy is the answer for a better planet.* But I prefer ppl seeking ways to get along :)