I tend to think it's psychotherapy when it's done wrong. Parents
   send kid with problems to therapist. Therapist probes and
   increases animosity towards parents all in the name of
   self-actualization. Years pass. Kid's ready to self-actualize
   NOW and has seen enough true crime shows to know how to get away
   with it.

   Black kids don't typically get sent to therapy as much. They
   have to learn to deal. I don't think either method is better;
   both suck honestly but there's really no perfect fix just yet.