I had a brother who wouldn't speak to me normally for 7 years,
   outside of important business stuff. He never said why, except,
   "You know why".

   Finally I figured it out: I said something to someone I
   shouldn't have. All those years, he assumed I knew EXACTLY what
   I did.

   I didn't.

   Now, here, in this little forum in a far off corner of the
   Internet, a man is telling me, "I'm waiting for you to answer my
   question".

   But he won't tell me the question.

   *sigh*. You'll just have to wait because, I have no idea what it
   is. tongue emoticon

   It might just take me 7 years to figure it out.