actually, culturally, Americans tend to be "close talkers" and we STARE. There are very few cultures that do the STARE as much as people from the USA do, except perhaps for Haitian culture. My mom was married to an Egyptian for 2 years once. When she went to Egypt for a month (I'm still envious a little) back in 1984, she was reminded not to stare a couple of times. It took her a few days to get used to the "timing". Egyptian glance timing is VERY short and quick. She said you'd feel someone staring and then when you turn around to look, all you see is a little hair moving as someone had completely turned away. Personal space is definitely a cultural thing though and differs among subcultures within a culture. I like my elbow room. I like an exceptional amount of elbow room. Some people do not. They like bumping my elbows. I think perhaps there might be a better line drawn for personal space among Americans by using the introvert/extrovert scale rather than "what's the dominant American culture do?" because really, it depends. I'm sure it's similar in other cultures as well in that way.