If you ever find yourself in a library near you, take out an Anthony Robbins course. It doesn't matter which one. I listened to a set of 12 cassettes of his back in 1995/6 and it opened my eyes to a lot of things. He has a way of talking that is engaging and uplifting, makes you think and feel good about yourself. Plus he gives tons of ideas on dealing with other people, dealing with yourself. Positive thinking combined with positive action - type of thing. "