I use it all of the time but for good. I have the unfortunate
   ability to 'feel' other ppls emotions based on what they're
   saying, even text. When I'm in person, I get overwhelmed with
   too many ppl in the room 'cause I feel all the shit they're
   feeling. It's stupid. I hate it. But it is what it is. But
   online, it's easier and more manageable. So, I take that and I
   figure out what to say to guide someone's emotional state to
   wherever I consider "level-headedness". I use whatever tools I
   have at hand to make that happen. Then when I feel as if they're
   in an "ok" state, I can exit the conversation. Been doing this
   for a long time. It's like I want to get the world to settle
   down a little and be more sane smile emoticon