Probably once you made the changes, that's how they were intended to happen. But if you hadn't chosen to make those changes, then the other way is how they intended to happen. I mean... your memories are probably going to change right alongside everything else, so it'll be hard to be fully objective. Maybe the alternate reality that "once was" will appear like a dream or a "what if scenario" but your memory of the events will be exactly as they turned out, in either case.