Let it out another way. Write a poem. A song. Shut the door and be a whirling dervish for a little while. Consider the fuel of the outpouring. It's not frustration: frustration is being pushed by something but it's not honesty. It's an emotion. == Oh, nice or not, you said destructive smile emoticon "I love you and can't hold back anymore" can lead to wrecked friendship or a positive result. "Here's everything you need to know about yourself that you're blind to see and I need to be honest so that you can stop frustrating me with your stupidity" can also lead to a wrecked friendship or a positive result. Or might not be with friends. With family.. well, things are wonkier. In the workplace? They _usually_ have channels for that.