Men are this, women are that. It's a dichotomy. A false one.
   I've heard many times I have heard in my life (I'm 44 yrs old):
   "All men are [insert disparaging remark]".... ...then one woman
   in the group turns towards me with a sympathetic look and says,
   "..but not you Ken. You're different." Heard it as a kid.
   Teenager, Adult. Now I'm middle aged. I still hear it. It's a
   bad way to view the world. It's not good to expose children to
   that attitude. It's sexism. == Oh it's not that difficult. I had
   mothers of my friends who thought they were "MILF" and would
   push their boobs in my face and come on to me. I wasn't
   interested in them. They were turned on by my adolescent
   intellectual talk and I don't know what else. I was polite and
   kind but then they'd try to cross a line. Thankfully none
   succeeded. So, I never understood "breasts as weapon" or a
   flirting tool. I also never understood breasts as a 'turn on'
   for men. If it's their thing, it's their thing I guess. But
   someone being turned on by a women breast feeding is, to me,
   like someone being turned on by a baby sucking on his mother's
   calf or something. It's ridiculous. ==