Thanks Luke - well I think what's most important is approaching
   everything with as clear a head as you can. Not always possible:
   emotions can cloud judgement... and often judgement that _seems_
   logical and is provably logical turns out to ALSO be driven by
   emotions, so it's not always easy to know if youre "doing it
   right". Practice I guess - Practice at life seems to make it
   easier. But of course once you master one skill, other
   challenges show themselves, but it never gets dull*
   I guess I've been working on developing a stronger and stronger
   intuition ... but going about it the long way. :P* fun process
   though.