It depends. I'm careful with words for example. I know people judge you on them. But appearance? Not so much. Maybe that does tell something about me. But I don't plan my outfits. I wear clothes because it protects me against the elements. No interest in nudity, but clothes are just functional things for me. Perhaps when I "dress nice", you can get some cues about my style but my usual style is, "Don't look at my clothes 'cause they're not me". == I love new language when it emerges. Suh for example. That's less than a year old, gaining prominence in the past three months in particular. Wassup --> Sup --> Suh == It all depends who is doing the interpreting. Message sent and message received can be VERY different things without a feedback loop to confirm or deny. ==