Be brave, Beau. You can do this. It's the right thing. It's the
   hard thing. Nothing will shelter you from all of the feelings
   that you are feeling right now. You have to go through this
   journey down into the netherlands and back up again. It's a
   process. You're already going through the first steps of the
   process now. Deciding whether to sit back and watch or take
   action and watch - either way the feelings you experience will
   be painful. You cannot allievate your own suffering whatever
   choice you make, but you can allieviate his suffering. "