I guess for a relationship to work - friendship, comradery,
   partnership, there has to be a few but important few things in
   common. to be willing to tolerate and "let go" other ppls
   imperfections, respecting differerences - even celebrating
   differences. Open to communication is a big one, willingness to
   show silliness and be fun. Be serious when serious is required,
   be fun when it's fun time. Expect only a few important things
   that are completely understood by every member of the ground and
   'buying in" to those few common things -- I think that helps
   tremendously in people getting along. "