I think people are like icebergs -- we see the tip of it sitting
   outside of the water and go, "Yes! I know that iceberg through
   and through!" - but then we can't see under the water, where the
   iceberg is actually a mile deeper and wider. (how many ships
   sank when they judged the iceberg by what they saw and never
   gave what lies beneath a second thought). People are always far
   more complex than they appear on the surface. Words and
   appearances make up but 1% of what a person really is, I
   believe. "