it's not easy either. Many people say, "I'm a good person." or "so and so's a good person" - but while it's nice to BE good and all that - DOING good is hard. Doing good doesn't always mean "do what your told" or "follow the majority" but sometimes it means stepping outside of your comfort zone and helping out, seeing what needs to be done - even if nobody else can see it - and know that you're ...doing a good thing. That's probably the hardest good to do of all - the unrecognized or misunderstood good. At that point it stops being a "popularity contest" (I'll do good so they like me) and is instead "I'm doing the right thing because it's the right thing." based on your own unique talents and abilities. "