This is amazing stuff. I believe in the technique 100% - the
   "yes, as soon as..." I read a book 'how to talk so kids will
   listen, how to listen so kids will talk" way back in '90 I
   believe - and that, along with other books like it, really
   changed not only how I speak to kids but how I speak to adults
   as well. People love a "yes" - even if they don't have RAD. How
   many dinner-time dramas could be solved by just eliminated No,
   and using a creative "yes"? :-) "