Ralf: Love the imagry - i think the kid dropped me in the wrong
   box too - I may use that as a new status update. Woodland: that
   feeling of 'connected' is a rare rare feeling. Perhaps most
   people are faking it - nobody really ever says... Sheila: YES! A
   deep sense of lonliness does come from feeling a need for deep
   emotional bonds and lacking them. How nice it would be to have
   shallow needs!