It's the trouble with having a minority opinion; your battle
   will be uphill all the way. I've been there - not about this
   issue but about others.

   Honestly I believe psychological testing for all parents should
   be mandatory but then again, then I'd be trusting the
   establishment that their norms will be correct.

   So, I let anarchy rule in parenting. Melting pot of society
   evens people out generally, whatever their upbringing. It's
   amazing any of us survive childhood at all honestly.