In about a month, I will be attending my favorite niece's wedding.

Brianne and Will (formerly known as Rebecca) are getting married.

For context, they have both decided they are trans?

I don't know much- I don't find it interesting or compelling, to be 
honest, I don't believe in it at all.  I just know that one must be
careful about the words one uses around trans people - it's very 
confusing and seems complicated to me.

At any rate, I don't care.

I am touched that Brianne offered me to say a few words.  

At first, I decided I wouldn't because I was afraid I might slip out 
the wrong name or pronoun or wrong word.  It is very difficult for me
to speak freely when I am worried about censors.

But what I would like to say is:

I dearly love both of you.

And, I am so blessed to witness one person saying to another, "I want to 
exist with you.  I want to always be connected to you, and I never want it 
to end."

"I don't see you as a body, nor as a mind, nor as a memory. I see you, and 
I love you, and I accept all of your possible pasts, and all of your 
possible futures, unconditionally, forever."