On a dating app, someone sent me three messages saying I was his exact type and to please notice him. I hate it when people ghost me, and I too am sick and tired of people who are my exact type never responding, so I replied politely turning him down and explaining that I am not interested in him, and he lives too far away. He said "fuck you" and unmatched me.

I am never affording anyone time, grace or energy upfront, ever again.


--- September 17th, 2025 ---

![catcrumb meme: cat with speech bubble that says "i'm really tired of being in a bad mood!!"](https://i.imgur.com/BgUTGtP.png)

That's me! Today I am not letting anything or anyone bring me down. Productivity at work, productivity at hobbies and lots of rest. If I can somehow manage to get some driving/parking practice,
great. Otherwise, I'm not worrying about ANYTHING!

I'm gonna go for a walk while it's sunny because it'll rain later, so maybe I'll delay my work tasks until the outside is no longer nice.


"the pursuit of excellence is a self-imposed shackle and I refuse to be burdened by it" - Oliver Darkshire