Subj : Re: mental health
To   : mary4
From : apam
Date : Wed Dec 25 2024 09:18 am

 >  ap> i think so. i dont see why not. as long as its respectful.
 > of course it would be respectful <3

Yep, I am sure you would. I was saying it more generally, sometimes
people (especially those who haven't experienced it), can be a bit nasty
about it.

 > i dont want to sh or s or si because i am in a pact with my lover...

Great, some people say there are good ways and bad ways to manage, but I
say what ever way keeps you alive and through it is the good way.

 > thank you for listening to me <3

:)

 > anyone is welcomed to share experiences of stories if they are
 > comfortable doing it

I've been on anti-depressants and anti-psychotics for most of my life.
Starting from when I was in high school. I moved to perth when I left
highschool, by myself. Made some great friends and fell in love with a
girl. She was a really beautiful person, so caring and always put others
before herself, so cute and funny. I adored her. She died - suicide. I
was broken, and drank for a number of years 6 - 7 to deal with it. Most
people would frown on drinking, but it got me through. My medication got
increased too around that time, and actually just got reduced a bit again
a month or two ago, and things are going good. Although it happened 20
years ago and I've since got married and have a son now (plus two
daughters who didn't make it) and although I am happy, I still to
sometimes wonder what life might have been like.

So thats my story, I say time can heal all wounds, but it doesn't erase
them. There's always scars.

So yeah, keep your pact, and do what you can to keep going - life always
has new things to throw at you and they aren't always bad :)

Andrew

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